Tag: sexless relationship

  • Gay in a Sexless Relationship

    Gay in a Sexless Relationship

    How do you deal with being bisexual or gay in a sexless relationship? As a therapist for gay men, I regularly have conversations about sexless relationships. Sometimes the relationship has been dragging on like this for years. It might have started as a slow drift, sex becoming less and less frequent until it simply stopped.…

  • Open Relationships: Unlocking Erotic Energy in Long-Term Gay Love

    Open Relationships: Unlocking Erotic Energy in Long-Term Gay Love

    Open relationships. Polyamory. Ethical non-monogamy. These are the gay relationship buzzwords of our time. For long-term gay couples, the spark of erotic energy often fades after around five, six, or seven years. This isn’t a sign of failure. It’s a reflection of a deeper transformation. What starts as sexual chemistry often evolves into comfort, care,…